May 14, 2007

Bullied Like A Fox

The Occupational Outlook Handbook has "bully victim" as a wide-open new line of work. It requires no training, has a great income, and you work from wherever you want:

A bullied teenager will receive substantial damages and an income for life after a Supreme Court judge found NSW educational authorities failed in their duty of care to deal with playground assaults and bullying.

Benjamin Cox's mother, Angela, sued the State of NSW on behalf of the Hunter Valley teenager.

He will receive at least $220,000 for pain and suffering.

She said the bullying, which started in infants school, had resulted in her son having little education and being unable to work.

Outside court his barrister, Dennis Wheelahan, QC, said the judgment had implications for the education system.

"The implications are that pupils in our school systems who are the subject of this type of conduct [if liability is established] can expect to recover substantial damages as is the case for Benjamin Cox."

In her judgment, delivered today, Justice Carolyn Simpson commented that Mr Cox's "adolescence has been all but destroyed; his adulthood will not be any better. He will never know the satisfaction of employment. He will suffer anxiety and depression, almost certainly, for the rest of his life".

During the case, the judge heard that, while at Woodberry Public School in 1995, Mr Cox was "throttled" by an older boy, and received compensation from the Victims Compensation Tribunal over the attack. By the time he went to high school, his mother said he thought school a "scary proposition".

"He didn't like crowds, he didn't like teachers, didn't like the work," she said.

The court heard Mr Cox, who is now 18, was a virtual recluse. He had only completed schooling up until the end of year 7, and an attempt at home schooling had failed.

His mother said he rarely went out, had no friends, and was on a pension.

"He just locks himself in his room playing PlayStation games," she said.

AAP reports: While the exact amount of damages has not yet been calculated, Mr Cox's legal team expects it to be about $1 million, thought to be a record in a school bullying case.

There's so much that is wrong with this situation. That "an attempt at home schooling failed" tells me there's as much bad parenting going on as anything else. She's repeatedly sued the schools for damaging her son, maybe one day he'll sue her for doing the same.

Posted by floridacracker at May 14, 2007 05:24 PM

   



Comments

Donnah, at first I was more shocked by the judges comments/predictions, but with a mom that spends so much energy focused on damage instead of repair the statement is probably accurate.
It's so sad that little education, tramatic experiences, and sadness will result in a life not worth but 220,000$, or so.
My sympathy to the poor family, may he RIP.

Posted by: nancy at May 14, 2007 08:47 PM

He's still alive - not dead and is the most miserable creature - heavily overweight and very withdrawn looking. I hated the judgement on him, saying he would never get a job. The judge (and thus society) have judged him to never heal, never improve, never overcome what has happened to him. To condemn an 18 year old like that is as bad as what the school bullies have done.

Posted by: Junia at May 15, 2007 12:07 AM

It really is. Even a kid who has suffered the most horrific sort of abuse, incest or brutal beatings in the home, one would never say that that kid is now absolutely hopeless to ever overcome it. You get them in therapy and get them help. Can you imagine anyone saying that someone like that is now incapable of ever holding a job? Of course not. Because it's not true. But since there's a deep-pocketed government agency available for suing, suddenly this kid is an absolute hopeless case forever. Ridiculous. The mother's mind-poisoning is the real child abuse here.

If you ever walk into a counseling service, a good portion of those well-educated, professional people there to assist you were once kids who were really in the shit. There's no excuse for what this woman is trying to fob off on her kid and the taxpayers.

Posted by: Donnah at May 15, 2007 12:21 AM

I agreed with donnah that he can get help. My thought of this guy is he just lazy. Quit school, rarely went out, and play Playstation (probably most of his day) and his mother didn't do anything to correct that behavior. Instead now taxpayer have to pay. I wonder why the judge did not order this kid to therapy or get help. I'm afraid that one day this kid will snap and many ppl with get hurt by him.

Posted by: quan at May 16, 2007 04:07 AM